Let’s End The Cycle Of Rejection, Loneliness, And Heartbreak
So That You Can Heal Your Heart And Rebuild Amazing Confidence.
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hi! I'm Ginger!
I am a psychotherapist and founder of Loving Me After We.
My specialty is helping women overcome heartbreak, increase self-love and confidence after a toxic relationship so they can become the best version of themselves.
In order to embody confidence, emotional security, and self-love, you must heal your heart and become aware of the roadblocks to a healthy relationship – with yourself.
Working with me you will learn how to stop:
- Over-giving, over-functioning and people pleasing in order to secure love, attention and affection from people who want a parent not a partner
- Ignoring the obvious and not so obvious red-flags in a relationship
- Choosing emotionally unavailable partners
- Entertaining potential partners who don't know what they want (or who they want)
- Trying to turn your "friends with benefits" into a forever relationship
- Overlapping relationships - getting under one partner to get over the last one
Cheers to the revolution of women healing their hearts so they can stop accepting bad behavior and start the best love affair they’ve ever known – with themselves.
HIFTING FROM THE UNCONSCIOUS, WOUNDED CHILD IN RELATIONSHIPS INTO THE BEST CONFIDENT,
SELF-LOVING VERSION OF YOURSELF.
PROBLEM #1 – ACCEPTING THE VICTIM ROLE IN RELATIONSHIPS
Too often we choose and settle for partners who treat us based on how we unwittingly see and experience ourselves. Not worthy of love. We have to shift from victim to vixen by learning how to love and cherish ourselves first, most and above all.
PROBLEM #2 – THE NEVER-ENDING REBOUND TOUR
To avoid the pain, we often move on by getting under someone else in order to get over the last one. We often don’t have a problem finding someone else, but our hearts need time to decompress, process and heal. In doing so, we take our heart on a sabbatical and give ourselves the space to reflect and chart a new course towards self-awareness, healing and self-love.
PROBLEM #3 – NOT LEARNING THE LESSONS
Learning the lessons around old emotional wounds, self-love and boundaries help us increase awareness around the traumatic patterns we have worked so hard to unsee. In learning the lessons, we get off the merry-go-round of toxic relationships and finally heal. Until then we will keep repeating the same cycle with same people, different names.
PROBLEM #4 – ALLOWING OUR INNER CHILD TO RUN OUR EMOTIONAL SHOW
Let’s be honest, sometimes we show up as the needy and insecure little girl afraid she’ll be rejected and abandoned by the one she loves. This often leads to overreacting or avoidance in your relationships because you feel that you aren’t good enough. Once you heal, then you operate from a position of strength and emotional security which leaves you feeling loved, cherished and secure.
PROBLEM #5 – DATING WITH A WOUNDED HEART BODY AND MIND
In learning to heal the aforementioned, we shift and heal the relationship with ourselves in order to become the person we want to be with. However, until we do so we continue the dating experience with a wounded heart, body and mind. In order to truly heal, we must integrate the healing process. It isn’t just reading a few books and becoming a hermit while we wait for Jesus to Fedex you a husband. It’s truly allowing ourselves to experience the old pain and hurt in a way that facilitates healing.
THE SOLUTION
Loving ourselves, healing our emotional wounds, setting boundaries, breaking trauma bonds and doing the necessary
healing work after a toxic relationship is a radical decision in today’s society.
In addressing this part of the problem we evolve into a conscious lover. This means we stop over-giving, over-functioning,
people-pleasing, needy/clingy behavior, abandoning our boundaries, fantasizing about potential, romanticizing
emotional pain, projecting/withholding, giving up our power, marinating in denial, ignoring our intuition,
playing victim, issuing ultimatums, tolerating infidelity, physical, verbal and emotional abuse.
In becoming a conscious lover, we integrate parts of ourselves that were previously disowned and abandoned
such as our inner child, ego, boundaries, standards and self-love. In conscious love, we operate from a position of
strength and emotional security which results in dating smarter, understanding and becoming aware of
relationship killers and builders while engaging in the kind of self-love that rivals Mount Everest.
We become woke. We become savage self-lovers. We are healing our inner little girls.
We are #lovingmeafterwe
Ready To Get Started?
"God gave me the best teacher and Ginger, that is you. I owe my new sense of joy and happiness all to you. You have literally stopped generations of abuse from continuing and I hope you realize just how important that is to not only me but my family as well.”
- Dana
"That desperate, anxious, and needy girl you met does not live here anymore! You made me understand that I am in control of my life and experiences in love. That desperate, anxious, and needy girl you met does not live here anymore! I'm happier and I feel like I got my life back!"
- Malia
"We got engaged on New Year's Eve! The relationship I have now with the man in my life is different. He senses something is different and he can't get enough of me! This is unreal. The same man I used to argue with every week is now so loving and attentive!"
- Tanya
